Sunday, March 3, 2013

BEST ACTION is NO ACTION

  Sometimes the best action that you can ever take is NO ACTION.What I mean by that is most of the time we react to many scenarios in our life based on our emotions.This is quite tricky when comes to emotions such as anger,hatred & etc.Simple example that I can quote is the "post" in facebook. Facebook is an independent social media which allows people to express themselves freely.But sometimes a post from one person becomes an 'offensive' post to the other.These is because of differences in opinion and believe system. That's a normal fact ! The actual issue takes form when we become very defensiveness on our opinion and fail to respect other peoples opinion.I'm not even talking about accepting other's opinion but all I'm talking here is 'respecting' other's opinion.
   There are many times, I have experience reading 'post' on my friend's facebook wall which somehow becomes a platform of debate with hundreds of comments.All these happen just because we react to the scenario based on our emotions and we just can't accept a different point of view.Personally I have seen this many times.
  The classic example which I would like to share here is, some of my friends are 'vegetarians' , so these guys will always post on their facebook wall about the importance of being a vegetarian ,the importance of non violence towards animal and etc.Its their freedom of expression and nothing wrong in it.Most of the time, what happens is most of my 'non vegetarian' friends becomes offended and emotional about the post.They take it too personal and start putting up 'their' opinion in the same post and somehow these ends up as a debate with no conclusion.

  This whole scenario starts because of our own choice of action.We can easily choose not to participate in it.After all its just a facebook post, why take it too personal and get involve in it?
We have a choice of NOT to participate in it by just ignoring it but most of the time we are too tempted to give our opinion.There is nothing wrong giving an opinion but things starts to heat up when we want to prove that we are 'right' and others are 'wrong' and this somehow ends up in an emotional battle.

  Just give it a thought.....lets take the same 'Vegetarian post' example above.What if you don't respond to the post although its contradicting to your believe.Will anything happen ?? ABSOLUTELY NOT !!!!
If you just leave it as it is, nothing will happen.Things starts to happen once you get emotionally involved and react upon it.In my opinion, when we react based on our emotions we are creating more damage to the scenario.

Being right or wrong is just about your ego..although its a though "TRUTH to swallow .. we have to accept it.

We are nothing but the source of which all are created..we are not different than anyone... adore and appreciate the difference and life will be better...



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